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How does one succeed in life?

11.06.2025 02:40

How does one succeed in life?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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That's it for today.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Time (physics): Who started counting our current time or is it just "set" by some scientific measure?

Procrastinates a lot.

What I need from you?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Ask yourself:

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Why do people mourn when their leaders lose elections? Is it common for people to cry over events that are out of their control?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Making more friends is a goal.

How common is it for siblings to fight over their parents' inheritance money? What is the best way to handle this type of situation?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Why am I peeing so much without drinking a lot of water? I checked my blood sugar and it is normal. Could it be something else?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

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How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

What is the best/cute/funny/playful chat/conversation between brother and sister?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Ive been pretending to be okay and acting as normal as possible, but Im actually completely heartbroken after a recent breakup. Its painful and really affecting me, to the point where I cant concentrate at work, Ive lost my appetite, I cant sleep, and It feels as if my whole world has been turned upside down. I loved him so much. He said so many cruel things to me and it made me realize he must not have loved me the way I loved him, or he wouldnt have said such horrible things. How do I handle the heartbreak and why cant I accept that he didnt love me and just forget about him?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Does not procrastinate.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Hangs out with loser friends.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.